You know when they say that it is better to be rich and miserable than to be miserable and poor they are not entirely wrong. Who does not love a life that is full of luxury and ease? While many women these days are career oriented and focused on earning money themselves, they are not always able to live a good and fulfilled life as not much money can be made in a 9 to 5. So, it is okay if you want to marry a rich man in order to meet your needs and wants.
However, it is not always a piece of cake to attract a rich man. There are certain things that you should be doing so that a wealthy stud stumbles your way and falls in love with you. Here are 6 ways that you should follow to attract rich men.
1. Have a stable career
You must be wondering why you would need a career when the reason why you are marrying a rich guy is to not have one. However, while this does sound redundant it is important that you have a stable career so that he does not think that you are into him because of his money.
If he is secured that way, he will be able to trust you. This is especially true as men do not want gold diggers who at any moment can leave them for someone richer than them. So, if you make him feel secure, he will definitely feel attracted to you.
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2. Maintain an attractive physique
The most obvious way to attract a rich man is to take care of yourself and look your best self. Men get attracted to women who are groomed and do not look unkempt. You should, therefore, work on making your body hot and sexy so that a wealthy man gravitates towards you.
The sexual attraction is the most important tool that you can use in order to attract rich men. This is because sex is what most men feel drawn towards. If there is someone specific that you have in your mind then the best thing you can probably do is to figure out what he likes and dislikes in a woman’s body. Once you do that, you can work towards achieving it.
Be it maintaining an hourglass body or plumping your lips, you’ve got to do what you’ve got to do to attract a rich man. You do not necessarily have to go Kardashian on your body meaning that you undergo a ton of surgeries. However, you should look a certain way in order to attract him.
3. Dress to impress
Rich men do not generally like women who are in PJs all the time with their hair unkempt. An important tactic to attract rich men is to dress up in clothes that complement the shape of your body. Furthermore, women who wear elegant, chic and sexy clothes come off as confident, which attracts rich men.
As they say, your first impression is your last impression so what you wear when you meet a guy is how he will perceive you. For example, if you dress up nicely and put on makeup you will be seen as willing to put the effort into the relationship. It will definitely not help your case if the man thinks you are just in it for the money.
Clothes that flatter your body and bring out the best in you will surely help you attract rich men. It will give the man the impression that you know how to please him because a woman who dresses up well sure knows how to pleasure a man!
4. Socialize with the right crowd
If your goal is to find a man who is financially stable and well off, it only makes sense to socialize with people that meet those standards. Don’t waste time going to clubs and bars on the weekends and instead spend time in galleries and auctions. This is the ultimate “fake it till you make it” moment.
Once you start frequenting these places, you can slowly infiltrate circles of rich people and get invited to parties and other gatherings. If you play your cards right, you are bound to meet a hottie who will give you all his attention.
The best part about going to places like art galleries and auctions is that you will attract the right kind of rich men and filter out the show-off-y boys who have quick cash to blow. Men who invest in art or buy ancient artefacts or cars have generational wealth or at least money they made themselves. This, by proxy, makes them sophisticated and chivalrous men who are sensible with their money and won’t waste time putting a ring on it. (Guilty as charged for making random Beyonce references.)
5. Find a common ground
Not to be preachy but we’ve said it before and we’ll say it again. If you’re only in it for the money, the man will catch on. It is important to establish an emotional connection with your catch before jumping into any kind of commitment.
This may go against the whole money hunting agenda but it’s true especially if you’re looking for a self-made, intelligent man. His money is his because he was smart enough not to lose it or get conned out of it so it’s safe to assume he will catch on pretty fast if you are milking him for his wealth.
Our advice: create a profound emotional connection, find a common ground and play hard to get. Don’t make yourself available all the time and show him you don’t care if he’s rich or influential. Show him you are in it for the man he is not his net worth.
This will also help your case if you’re looking to marry said rich man. If he cares for you and knows you better, he will probably want to settle down sooner. Go get your man!
6. Take charge once in a while
Alpha males prefer submissive women who can follow their lead but every once in a while some display of power can be attractive. Show him you need him but you can also hold your ground. Ask him to do things for you. Simple tasks like opening a lid or helping you with your shoes can be great ways to let your man know you need him for mundane everyday tasks and not just when you need to go shopping.
That being said, pick up the tab every once in a while. When you go out to eat, pay for the food or buy him something he likes and surprise him with it. Remember details about him and do something special for him every once in a while.
Don’t go overboard with the special gifts and treatment since this may come off as you sucking up to him to coerce money out of him. This is best when done in moderation. Make him feel cared for but also like he’s in charge. Find the perfect balance and you’re set for life.
Finding a rich man and keeping him can be a challenge even for the most experienced vixens out there. Make sure to follow these steps and be genuine to make sure you get all you want and more out of your man. Have fun out there and remember, keep your heart safe from the heart breakers.